1. REVIEW

In this study we learned the importance of having a mature attitude. Becoming part of the diverse body of Christ brings with it the potential for conflicts and relational tensions. Thus, God calls us to bear with each other in love in order to be instruments for healing in a broken world. Let’s take a closer look at your experiences and attitudes.

2. APPLICATION

A. Have you experienced tensions with people in the following areas? Tell us one example.

1) ___ Cultural tensions: Conflicts due to cultural differences.
2) ___ Socio-economic tensions: Conflict due to social status differences.
3) ___ Team tensions: Conflict due to personality or leadership style differences.


B. To what degree are these toxic behaviors present in your life?

(1=Low/ 10=High)

1) Avoidance: I stay quiet instead of addressing the tensions.
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2) Gossip: I share my frustrations behind the person’s back.
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3) Division: I walk away instead of addressing the tensions.
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3. GET DEEPER

A. A mature attitude is characterized by these three behaviors. Which ones are present in your life?

___ Bearing with each other: I engage with other people as equals rather than superior/inferior.
___ Forgiving grievances: I keep my heart free from all roots of bitterness.
___ Loving with God’s love: I keep Jesus at the center of my relationship with people.


B. God wants us to create a healing atmosphere shaped by godly attitudes.

What is one action that God wants you to take as a result of this study?

God wants me to ____________________________________________

4. GROUP PRAYER

(1) Thank God for his unfailing love.
(2) Acknowledge before God any toxic attitude that He revealed to you through this study.
(3) Invite God to help you grow a mature attitude and empower you to make the necessary changes.
(4) Thank God in advance for the way He will gently lead you and bring transformation in your life.